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Books for Bereaved Parents and Children

Processing grief can be a significant challenge for those directly experiencing loss and those around them. No single book can offer a simple answer, so we reached out to our followers and the families we have supported. Below are the books for bereaved parents and children that many of them have found helpful.

Books connected to our Red Nose community

Books for bereaved parents after miscarriage, stillbirth or the death of a baby or child

  • Speaking the Unspeakable

    Jackie Tarabay

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  • Little Life Big Loss

    23 bereaved mums

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  • Letters of Love – Written for Pregnancy & Infant Loss

    Edited by Melissa Desveaux

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  • Still A Mum

    Meagan Donaldson

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  • The Birthdays Without You Journal

    Lauran Ellis

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  • Hard to Bear: Investigating the science and silence or miscarriage

    Isabelle Oderberg

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  • The Baby Loss Guide

    Zoe Clark-Coates

  • You are the Mother of all Mothers

    Angela Mille

  • A Grief Observed

    C S Lewis

  • Coping with Grief

    Mal & Dianne McKissock

  • They Were Still Born – Personal Stories about Stillbirth

    Janel C. Atlas

  • Women Who Run With The Wolves

    Clarissa Pinkola Estes

  • Heart Space

    Ami McCarthy

  • All I Know – A memoir of love, loss and life

    Mary Coustas

  • Fallen Angel

    Pauline Falach

  • Layla’s Story – A memoir of sex, love, loss and longing

    Vanessa Gorman

  • Changed – Living with Stillbirth

    Liza Jankowski

  • The rules do not apply

    Ariel Levy

  • An Exact Replica of a Figment of My Imagination

    Elizabeth McCracken

  • Inside Out

    Demi Moore

  • Invisible Earthquake – A woman’s journal through Stillbirth

    Malika Ndlovu

  • I AM I AM I AM – Seventeen Brushes with Death

    Maggie O’Farrell

  • Still at Birth

    Caroline Sugden

  • The Chronology of Water

    Lidia Yuknavitch

  • Mackenzie’s Mission – How one family turned tragedy into hope and love

    Rachael Casella

  • Dead Babies and Seaside Towns

    Alice Jolly

  • Any Ordinary Day

    Leigh Sales

  • Your Own Kind of Girl

    Clare Bowditch

  • to linger on hot coals – collected poetic works from grieving women writers

    Stephanie Paige Cole & Catherine Bayly

  • Always a part of me – Surviving Childbearing loss

    Amanda Collinge, Sue Daniel & Heather Grace Jones

  • Three Minus One – Stories of Parents Love and Loss

    Sean Hanish & Brooke Warner

  • Surviving my first year of Childloss – Personal stories from Grieving Parents

    Nathalie Himmelrich

  • A Silent Love

    Adrienne Ryan

  • Beyond Tears

    Ellen Mitchel

  • Miracle Beginnings

    Raquel Bosustow

  • Pregnancy Loss

    Zoe Taylor

  • Worse Things Happen at Sea

    William McInnes & Sarah Watts

  • The Reality Slap

    Ruff Harris

  • Bearing the unbearable: love, loss, and the heartbreaking path of grief

    Joanne Cacciatore, PhD

  • The unspeakable loss: how do you live after a child dies?

    Nisha Zenoff

  • The Year of Magical Thinking

    Joan Didion

  • Young Widow’s Guide to Home Improvement

    Virginia Lloyd

  • Getting Back to Life When Grief Won’t Heal

    Phyllis Kosminsky McGraw- Hill

  • How to Go On Living When Someone You Love Dies

    Therese Rando Bantam

  • Beyond Words: Grieving when your child has died

    Andrew Thompson and Tricia Irving

  • Forever Loved: A Guidebook for Widows and Widowers

    Maria Carr and Aisling Pont

  • A Widow’s Story

    Joyce Carol Oates

  • Nothing was the Same

    Kay Redfield Jamison

  • No Time for Goodbyes

    Janice Harris Lord

  • My Mother, My Father – On Losing a Parent

    Susan Wyndham

  • When Bad Things Happen to Good People

    Harold Kushner

  • The Heart of Grief

    Thomas Attig

  • Grief and Remembering

    Allan Kellehear

  • Coping with Grief

    Mal McKissock

  • The Grief of our Children

    Diane McKissock

  • Now that the Funeral is Over: Understanding the Effects of our Grief

    Doris Zagdanski

  • Healing Grief – A Guide to Loss and Recovery

    Barbara Ward Vermillion

  • A Parent’s Guide to Raising Grieving Children

    Phyllis Silverman et al

  • The Grieving Teen

    Helen Fitzgerald

  • Never the Same

    Donna Schurmann

  • The Orphaned Adult: Understanding And Coping With Grief and Change After The Death Of Our Parents

    Alexander Levy

  • Letting Go of the Person You Used to Be: Lessons on Change, Loss, and Spiritual Transformation

    Surya Das

  • Going to Pieces Without Falling Apart

    Mark Epstein

  • Bereaved Children and Teens: A Support Guide for Parents and Professionals

    Earl Grollman

  • Talking About Death

    Earl Grollman

  • Good Mourning

    Sally Douglas and Imogen Carn

  • Signs

    Laura Lynne Jackson

  • Finding Meaning

    David Kessler

  • Life is Tough – But so are you

    Briony Benjamin

Books for children grieving a sibling

  • My Little Star

    Rory H Mathers

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  • My Brother, Born Sleeping

    Lellie Lopter

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  • Gilbert's Cake

    Emily Mir

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  • Born to Fly

    Tamara Whittaker

  • The Grief Wave

    Tracey Moroney

  • Shelter for Sadness

    Anne Booth

  • Waiting for Wolf

    Sandra Dieckmann

  • Beginnings and Endings with Lifetimes in between

    Bryan Mellonie and Robert Ingpen

  • Something Happened

    Cathy Blanford

  • We were gonna have a baby, but we had an angel instead

    Pat Schwiebert

Poems for families who have experienced loss

  • The other one

    Robert Service

Red Nose is committed to supporting families navigating the complexities of the loss of a baby or child. To access our specialised bereavement support, including counselling, peer support programs, support groups and resources tailored to individual needs, visit Find Support.

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